Resources to help you care for children
These resources can help you care for your children when you separate.
Parents’ guide to caring for children after separation
This booklet has lots of useful information and tips to help you put your children first and work out how they’ll be cared for when you separate.
Putting your children first [PDF, 466 KB]
These factsheets have more information to help you when you separate:
Children need parents who understand what they’re going through [PDF, 309 KB]
Children need parents to protect and help them [PDF, 592 KB]
Making arrangements for your children / Getting on as separated parents [PDF, 595 KB]
How to manage changeovers, new partners and step-families [PDF, 594 KB]
Tips for family/whānau when there’s been a separation involving children [PDF, 306 KB]
Answering difficult questions from children [PDF, 309 KB]
Making a parenting plan
A parenting plan will help you work through and record decisions like:
- day-to-day care of your children
- arrangements for contact if you don’t share day-to-day care
- other parenting issues, such as after school activities and medical treatment.
Making a Parenting Plan workbook [PDF, 1.9 MB]
Children’s guide to separation
This booklet helps answer kids’ questions about what happens to them when their parents break up.
Children’s guide to separation [PDF, 3.8 MB]
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